"Childhood forms the foundation for the rest of our lives, unless we consciously decide to change the way our brains were wired back then. The repercussions of my childhood manifested in my teenage and young adult life. By the time I turned 27, it had escalated to severe anxiety attacks, and for years, I wasn't even aware of them. Worse yet, those around me were unaware too and couldn't provide the support I needed.
For years, these thoughts echoed in my mind: ""I will do things differently, I will support my child, I will let them feel and express their emotions, I won’t pass on generational trauma to my children."" However, when I was expecting a child and it ended in a miscarriage, the loss was unimaginable. Throughout my early twenties, I had envisioned doing things differently with my child.
As people say, “trust the universe, it always has a unique plan crafted for you” and that what I believed. But yet couldn’t see a ray of hope. To build a new version, the old one needs to break down completely. This was probably just the beginning of my breaking. Four years of breaking and building gave birth to a new version of me. My determination to change my life made it all happen.
During this journey, I acquired powerful skills and learned important lessons that I felt compelled to share with the world. I founded a company called “TotCircle” to educate parents and raise awareness about emotions—what they are, why they exist, and how to process them.
Until I started TotCircle, I felt like a nobody in my life. However, witnessing the impact of the products I created on parents and children was magical. I saw the purpose of my life's journey. From that day until today, I feel grateful that my work is breaking generational cycles, addressing childhood wounds and traumas, and educating parents to heal themselves—shifting the way the next generation is raised.
I strongly believe that the external world may or may not be on our side, but the internal world needs to be our ally. Every child deserves to live a happy, confident life."